The Weirdness of Solidarity

June 10, 2024
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Solidarity is a simple idea with a lot of weight behind it. It means standing together, sharing strength, and refusing to let anyone face things alone. For autistic and other neurodivergent people, solidarity is not an abstract slogan. It is often what makes life more bearable and change possible.

Why solidarity matters so much

When you spend years being told you are the problem, it is easy to believe you are the only one struggling. Meeting others who share your experience breaks that isolation. Suddenly the difficulties are not personal failings but common ground, and the relief of being understood without explanation is hard to overstate.

Community across difference

Neurodivergent solidarity is broad. Autistic people, ADHDers, dyslexic and dyspraxic people, and others often recognise something familiar in each other, even when their experiences differ. Solidarity does not require everyone to be the same. It asks only that we take each other seriously and make room for a range of needs.

What solidarity looks like in practice

It can be small. Sharing what worked for you, believing someone when they describe their experience, adjusting a plan so more people can take part. It can be larger too, like speaking up for accommodations or challenging the assumption that one way of being is the correct one. Practical support is solidarity in action.

Stronger together

None of us thrives in isolation. Communities that look out for their members, celebrate different strengths, and share the load are more resilient than any individual alone. That is the quiet power of solidarity. It turns private struggle into collective strength.

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What solidarity looks like in practice

  • Believing each other without demanding proof, especially about pain, sensory experience or exhaustion that isn’t visible.
  • Sharing what works, from accommodation requests that succeeded to scripts for hard conversations with schools or employers.
  • Showing up for each other in small, practical ways: sitting with someone through a hard appointment, or simply not making someone explain themselves twice.
  • Making room for difference within the community itself, since neurodivergent people are not a single type, and solidarity means welcoming that range rather than expecting uniformity.

Why this matters beyond individual comfort

Solidarity isn’t only emotional support, though that matters enormously. Collective voice is also what drives change: better school policy, more accessible workplaces, and public understanding that doesn’t rely on stereotype. Individual advocacy is exhausting and easy to dismiss. A community speaking with one voice is much harder to ignore.

Frequently asked questions

Do you need a diagnosis to take part in neurodivergent community and solidarity?
No. Many people who suspect they are autistic or otherwise neurodivergent, but haven’t been formally diagnosed, find real value and belonging in these communities.

What if solidarity within the community feels hard to find?
It’s common to feel like an outlier even within a community built around shared difference. Looking for smaller, specific spaces, by interest, by identity, or by shared experience, often helps more than trying to fit into one broad group.

Finding solidarity when it feels hard to reach

Online communities, local meetups, and interest-based groups all offer different routes into solidarity. Some people find it easiest through shared special interests, others through shared advocacy work, and others simply through everyday spaces where masking isn’t required. There’s no single right way in, and it’s worth trying more than one until something fits.

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